This article I wrote for you, and for all the other women that are struggling, I know you must be going through a lot. And I am sorry that you are.
I don’t know anything about you. Not your name. Not your life. I don’t know why you are struggling.
But I do know you can use some uplifting words. Some understanding. Some distraction. You know why I know that. Because, dear you, I am struggling too.
Life can get so complicated. Sometimes for a reason, sometimes just because.
I have days where I feel good and there are days I can barely make it out of bed.
Some days I hate myself. How I look, how I talk. What I have done and what I haven’t done. Some days I love myself, and I know that I am a good person.
I chose to write this article because I want you to know that you are not alone. And to maybe make you feel a bit better, even if it is just for a moment. And for myself. To heal. To write these kind words to myself. But mostly, for you. For us. For all the women that need to hear it. This one is for us all.
To all the women that are struggling
To the woman who feels she is not worthy. Know that you are. You are worthy of all good things in life. You are loved and deserve the best.
To the woman who is in pain. It will get better. We have to believe that it will. Take it one step at a time. Every step is one and no matter how tiny it feels, it is a huge step to keep going when you are in so much pain.
To the woman who is afraid to love. I don’t know what happened to you, that made you afraid to let someone else close to you. I know it is scary. To be vulnerable. To be open. I am too, scared. It is all about finding the right person, that will be patient and understanding. For the right person, you will not let the fear take over.
To the woman who feels she doesn’t fit in. Maybe it isn’t as bad to not fit in? Maybe it is what makes you ,you. There would be no fun if we were all the same. Stop trying to fit it, be yourself. There are people that will love you for exactly who you are. Don’t change for anyone. Do any of us really fit in?
To the woman who can’t get out of bed in the morning. I’ve been there. I will always have these days. We all will have these days. But sometimes it is more than just “one of those days”. Let your loved ones know how you feel. It is okay to ask for help.
To the woman who is grieving. I am so sorry for your loss. There isn’t much I can say to make you feel better. Grief is something you have to go through, something you have to feel. I have lost people in my life, I have grieved. And it is hard.
The truth is, it will never go away. But it will fade, the pain will fade. It will get better. You will never forget, and you shouldn’t want to forget your loved ones. Yes, there is pain. But that is the price of having loved. Hold on.
To the woman who has lost love. What a beautiful thing, to have loved. I know it hurts, love is pain. We never want to lose it. But even if this person is no longer in your life, it doesn’t mean that your love is gone. You can love someone and not have or want them in your life. Read that again. It will get better.
To the woman who is afraid of her dreams. Don’t be afraid. Life is not a game. You will not get a new chance. Do whatever makes you happy, live life for yourself. You got this.
To the woman who hasn’t found her voice. FIND IT! Speak up for yourself. Stop letting others hold you back. You are stronger than you think and if you think people don’t want to hear what you have to say, MAKE THEM LISTEN.
To the woman who has been hurt. I am so sorry you got hurt. It is one of the worst feelings there is. I don’t know why you got hurt, but take good care of yourself. Love yourself. Practice self-care. You are the most important person in your life, without you, there is no life. You will be stronger because of this pain. Pain makes you strong. Embrace it, feel it.
To the woman who finds it hard to trust people. I know how this feels, I find it hard to trust people too. Making friends for me isn’t hard, but to go deeper than small talk is. I don’t know your reason, but for me, I have a hard time trusting people because I am afraid I will get hurt and they will leave. People never stay…
But dear you, this fear we have, is what makes us self-sabotage. I don’t have the answers. But there are people worth trusting, and that will stay in good and in bad times. Let’s keep believing in the good of people.
To the woman who is slowly fading away. Please don’t fade away. I don’t know why you feel this. But you are so beautiful and worthy of living. Maybe you don’t feel seen or heard. I am so sorry. But believe in yourself. You have a lot of things to share with the world.
To the woman who is insecure. We all have insecurities. And I do think that it is normal, and not something we can ever make disappear fully. But if insecurities are making you stop living the life you want, it is time you need to work on this. I made a self-love workbook, I think this will help you a lot. It is free to download. You deserve to invest time in yourself.
To the woman who feels broken. You are not broken, but you feel that you are. You must have been hurt pretty badly to feel this way. Sometimes life just fucking sucks, I can’t say this any other way.
The good news, what is broken can be put together again. Work on yourself. Get through this. Seek help if you need to. Talk about it. Kick their asses and come back stronger.
To the woman who’s tired. Please take good care of yourself. I know it is hard. I struggle with this myself a lot too. We all know what we need to do but still can’t do it. What I have learned, is to accept it. Accept that you just can’t right now. Don’t force things. Take your time. Rest. Take the best care of yourself that you are capable of right now.
To the woman who hates herself. Accept that you are not perfect. Accept that you make mistakes. Accept that you too can hurt people. You don’t deserve to hate yourself. You are worthy of loving yourself and accept the flaws that make you human. You are so much more than your flaws. I am so much more than my flaws. It is what makes us, us. Never hate yourself.
To the woman who has lost hope. Hope is never lost. In every situation, you can find something beautiful. Life is short, too short for some people. Hope – you will find it in yourself. Peace – you will find it in yourself.
Maybe you have lost something, or maybe you are going through some serious health issues. Whatever the reason, hope can feel dangerous, but in the end, hope is all we have.
To the woman who had her heart broken. I am so sorry. It hurts, so so much. I know it feels that things will never get better. That you will have to live with this pain forever.
And yes, you will always remember this. But you won’t always feel this pain. I promise. What you need is for time to pass. Heal. Work on yourself. Become a better person. Heal your heart. Learn from this and be more cautious with your heart next time, but never be afraid to love again.
To the woman who feels sad when she feels she shouldn’t. You are allowed to feel what you feel, whenever you want. Don’t let anyone tell you something else. Nobody has the right to tell someone else how they should feel. Listen to yourself and take care of yourself.
To all of us
I hope that whatever you are struggling with at this moment, you will get through it. I have to believe that you will. I have to believe I will.
They say that everything happens for a reason. And I don’t know if I believe that to be true. But what I do know, is that all my pain, all the hard times, have taught me my best lessons. In the end, they made me better.
It is such a cringy thing to say, I know. But it is the truth for me.
To all the women who are struggling, I have one last message for you, and I hope there will be one less woman struggling today.
You are a beautiful human. You are stronger than you think. And it also is okay to just not be okay. Accept who you are, accept your flaws. Accept your beauty, your strengths.
Stand up for yourself. Believe in yourself, even if no one else does. Fuck other people. Focus on you. Be true to yourself. Hope that things will be better. Work on things to be better. Seek help if you need to.
Tell yourself you are worthy, because you are. I am worthy. We are worthy.
All of us are.
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